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Saturday, September 29, 2012

Grandfather's Clock



As I sit here on a warm crisp fall night, I hear a clock chime 7 o’clock. This clock actually happens to be my grandfather’s clock. It is a Herman Miller clock given to him for his retirement from the railroad. The Durkee men were known to have immaculate degeneration, a disease that would affect their eyesight. There was a time in my life where I would visit my grandfather on a weekly bases as he lived in Schereville, IN. I would do odd jobs for him and he would take me to lunch. I really only wanted to try and keep him company. He eventually moved closer to my father in Mokena, IL. There was a time when Rich and came home to visit during the holidays. Grandpa was upset because he couldn’t hear his clock and wanted to get a new one. 

We took him all around to search for one he would like and then we haggled with the owner over the price. Well it wasn’t long and Grandpa did not like the new clock. I Unfortunately, he was unable to sit up or move around. The infection finally took over and he passed away.

He was 92 when he died.

When I was little, I remember playing with this wind up clock that was red and had a school house theme. There was a song that played along with it and it wasn’t until recently that I found out.

It is: My Grandfather’s Clock
My grandfather's clock was too large for the shelf,
So it stood ninety years on the floor;
It was taller by half than the old man himself,
Though it weighed not a pennyweight more.
It was bought on the morn of the day that he was born,
And was always his treasure and pride;
But it stopp'd short — never to go again —
When the old man died.
CHORUS:
Ninety years without slumbering
(tick, tick, tick, tick),
His life seconds numbering,
(tick, tick, tick, tick),
It stopp'd short — never to go again —
When the old man died.
In watching its pendulum swing to and fro,
Many hours had he spent while a boy;
And in childhood and manhood the clock seemed to know
And to share both his grief and his joy.
For it struck twenty-four when he entered at the door,
With a blooming and beautiful bride;
But it stopped short — never to go again —
When the old man died.
CHORUS
My grandfather said that of those he could hire,
Not a servant so faithful he found;
For it wasted no time, and had but one desire —
At the close of each week to be wound.
And it kept in its place — not a frown upon its face,
And its hands never hung by its side.
But it stopp'd short — never to go again —
When the old man died.
CHORUS

It rang an alarm in the dead of the night —
An alarm that for years had been dumb;
And we knew that his spirit was pluming for flight —
That his hour of departure had come.
Still the clock kept the time, with a soft and muffled chime,
As we silently stood by his side;
But it stopp'd short — never to go again —
When the old man died.
CHORUS

Although Grandpa’s clock is one that can sit on the shelf, the song still holds true. Some might say that my Grandpa was a grouchy and grumpy old man. I saw a different side of him. If you just take the time to get to know someone, you might be surprised.

He was a great man and provided well for his family. He was a loving Grandfather as one could be. He loved baseball, music, and boots.

So as the clock struck this evening, I smile a bit because I know that is him chiming in to say hi.

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Braedon turns 7



Dear Braedon,

I can’t believe that you are 7. A lot has changed in one year. You are the most kindest, reasonable, logical, and loveable little boy. I shouldn’t say little boy as you are almost as tall as me. You are about 1 foot smaller than I am. I know that you will be taller than I am, but will you be taller than your father?

You love to play with legos. Normally, your father or I put them together, but recently you did one yourself. It was a little car from the Dino set. I was so proud and you were so thrilled. We bought you a Pirates of the Caribbean Black Pearl boat. You and your father started to assemble it, but you lost interest after a bit. Me and your father had to finish it. So far it has remained intact even with your brother and sister around.
We gave you a birthday party you wanted. We jumped and played at a bouncy castle place. It was very fun. 

We invited your cousins and friends from coop. Last year you had girlfriend named Artemis but she didn’t return. We have only been at coop one week and you have a new girlfriend. Her name is Veda. She is super cute and sweet. She came to your party and the two of you played and played.

You are doing so well with your school work. Each day I love teaching you something new and discovering what you already know. There are times when you don’t want to do the work, but you melted my heart when you said, “Mom when are we going to do our math and geography?” I try to do a little each day with you. I want you to learn and be excited as much as possible. Again, I love the fact that we kept you home to do school. The thought of someone else being able to see you reach milestones would break my heart.

Speaking of milestones, the day after your birthday you lost your 6th tooth. It seems as though one comes out and another one is loose. You do already have another one just starting to wiggle a little.

Your favorites: the color blue, minecraft, lego video game: batman, harry potter and starwars, starcraft game, angry birds video and toys, you love to drink milk or baba’s.

Gifts for you birthday: you got lego dinos, lego watch, lego spaceshuttle, batman mask, drawing book, some books to read, lego power miners,  and of course the boat.

You are an amazingly creative and talented child. You value right versus wrong and take things to heart when something is meaningful. You get emotional when things you are misunderstood or being scolded for something you didn’t do. When you want something and we say no, if you really want it you make a deal or a logical argument. Most of the times you end up getting what you want.

I am delighted to be your mom and watch you grow up into this wonderful boy. You are so helpful and kind to your siblings. You are concerned and compassionate about others. I wish you the best 7th year and can’t wait to see what you accomplish.

Love—your mom